How to restart the conversation without forcing it.
Tips to revive the exchange without putting pressure.
Haaaaaa you got ghosted... Silences in an online conversation can happen at any time. You know, those moments when the other person seems to have evaporated, and you wonder if it's the end of the discussion, if you stink so much that it can be felt on the other side of the screen... Don't panic! There are ways to restart the conversation naturally, without forcing and without making a drama. Here are some tips to help you keep the conversation fluid and pleasant, without it becoming awkward.
1. Don't panic, it's normal 😌
First of all, it's important not to panic. A little silence from time to time doesn't mean the person has lost interest. They may be busy, distracted, or simply taking their time to think about their response. Don't take the other person's silence personally.
Tip: Take a breath and let the conversation follow its course. If you do too many follow-ups, it might create unnecessary pressure.
2. Restart with open questions 👇
A simple and effective way to restart a conversation is to ask an open question that elicits a more detailed response. For example: "What do you have planned this weekend?", it's a bit light but it can work if the person isn't "angry"... Or "I'm curious to know what you think about [a topic that interests you both]?" These questions encourage the other to talk more without forcing a particular topic.
Tip: Try asking questions related to elements you've already discussed, so the transition is more natural.
✅ Examples:
- Hi, I just wanted to say hi, how are you? 😊
- Hi! A little message to brighten your day, I hope you've thought about me a bit lately. 😊
- I didn't want to bombard you with messages, so I waited a bit before telling you I just wanted to chat a little with you! Let me know when you have a little time 😄
- Friendly check-in: still alive? ✅
3. Restart with humor and lightness 🤪
Sometimes, a bit of humor can work wonders. If you feel the conversation is a bit stuck, a funny remark or light wordplay can defuse the situation and restart the exchange without pressure.
Tip: For example, after a little silence, you could say: "Well, I was worried I'd lost you in space-time 😅, are you still there?" This kind of follow-up relaxes the atmosphere and can reintroduce an exchange without too much tension.
Tip Bis: If your humor level makes you want to send a message that says: "Damn answer", don't practice this humor right away.
✅ Examples:
- Hiiii! Reminder: you have a message waiting... from ME! 😏
- I'm back smoothly, like a follow-up ninja. 👀
- Come on, I bet with myself that you'd answer before tomorrow... Make me win!
- I asked my cat what to tell you, he just looked at me and left... Not sure that helps. 🐱 (If you don't have cats it doesn't work, so go buy a cat fast)
- Did you know dolphins sleep with one eye open? No connection but there, I was just looking for a way to say hi and wish you a good day. 🐬
4. Share a bit of yourself, without revealing everything 🤫
Sometimes, sharing something personal or interesting about yourself can help revive the conversation. You can tell a recent anecdote or share a thought, which gives the other the opportunity to bounce back on it. But be careful, it shouldn't become a monologue!
Tip: Try to stay light and not insist too much. For example: "I saw a movie this morning and I can't decide if I loved it or hated it, have you seen something good recently?" This invites the other to share in turn and wonder what movie you saw (and don't take advantage of this moment to ghost them in turn).
5. Use current events or common interests 🌍
If you feel the conversation is starting to run out of steam, why not talk about a current topic that could revive the other's interest? Whether it's a trending series, a sports event, or even a trend on social networks, these topics can quickly move the discussion forward.
Tip: If you know you have common passions, mention them to put a bit of spark back in the conversation. For example, "I saw that the latest episode of [series name] just came out, it made me want to rewatch it!" This could spark an exciting exchange.
6. Don't be in a hurry ⏳
It's important to remember that an online conversation doesn't always have to be instant. Don't force the person to respond right away. Leave space and time for the other to want to respond. A fluid conversation comes with time and patience.
Tip: If you don't get an immediate response, occupy yourself with something else and let the person come back to you naturally. This avoids giving the impression of harassing someone.
7. Change the subject if necessary 🔄
If you feel the current topic no longer interests the other, don't hesitate to propose a new topic. You could say something like: "Okay, let's change the subject! What are you doing this weekend?" or even "I have a slightly lighter question: if you could have dinner with any celebrity, who would it be?" This allows you to break the silence and restart an exchange without forcing.
Conclusion: The key is lightness and patience 🌟
Restarting an online conversation isn't an exact science, but with a bit of tact, humor and empathy, you can make the exchange continue naturally. The important thing is not to force and stay true to yourself. Be patient and let discussions develop at their own pace. And above all, have fun!
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