How to start a conversation online well? 💬
The keys to engaging in a natural and captivating discussion
Starting an online conversation can be a real challenge, especially if you're not sure how to begin. First impressions matter, whether for a romantic encounter or a simple discussion. So, how do you break the ice without making mistakes? Here are some tips to help you start an online conversation well and make the exchange more fluid and pleasant.
1. Be authentic from the start 🧑🤝🧑
The first rule for a successful online conversation is to be yourself. No need to play a role or try to seem perfect. People appreciate authentic conversations, where everyone can be honest and you won't have to adapt to what the person expects from you. Start with a simple "Hi, how are you?" and add a personal touch that shows your interest in the person in front of you.
Little plus: If you see an interesting detail in the person's profile, mention it right away. For example: "I saw you love traveling, what's your favorite place?" This shows you're really interested in what the other person likes.
2. Ask open questions to get to know the other better 🤔
Open questions, which don't answer with a simple "yes" or "no", are ideal for engaging in a deeper conversation. They invite the person to share their opinions, passions and experiences. For example: "What pushed you to sign up on QuizzyMatch?" or "What's the last movie that really marked you?"
Little plus: Avoid questions that are too general like "What do you do?" or "Did you have a good day?", because they don't spark much conversation. Seek to explore more personal and interesting topics.
✅ Examples:- What are you passionate about right now? 😊
- What's something few people know about you?
- What do you work in right now? (...) Is it the job you wanted to do or is it while waiting to do what you want?
3. Keep a light and positive tone 😄
Online conversations are often more relaxed than face-to-face ones, so take advantage of that to keep a light and humorous tone! People like to chat with those who have a positive attitude and don't take themselves too seriously. Don't hesitate to use emojis to add a bit of fun to your messages.
Little plus: If you want to add a humorous touch, do it subtly. For example, after a slightly more serious response, you can say: "Well, I promise not to ask an existential question now 😜".
Little plus Bis: Some people will have trouble understanding at first that your sentence had a hint of humor... That's the problem with written messages. So make sure it shows! :)
4. Be patient and listen actively 👂
When you start chatting with someone, be patient and let the other person express themselves at their own pace. Avoid monopolizing the conversation and show that you're actively listening. To do this, you can rephrase what the other person says or ask follow-up questions to show your interest.
Little plus: If the other person talks about an experience or topic that interests you, bounce back on it by asking questions to deepen the discussion. This helps create a stronger bond and keep the conversation going.
5. Avoid sensitive topics at the start 🚫
Avoid talking too much about sensitive topics right away. Discussions about politics, religion or overly controversial topics can create tension and make the conversation uncomfortable. Keep these topics for later, once you've established a good connection.
Little plus: Focus rather on light and interesting topics that can lead to exciting exchanges, like hobbies, travel, music or movies.
6. Use app features for more interaction 🤖
If you want to make the conversation more fun and interactive, use the features available on QuizzyMatch! For example, you can send a quiz to the other person to test your compatibility, or share a fun post on the wall to start a discussion around an interesting topic.
Little plus: Don't hesitate to send a fun predefined message like: "Tell me more, I'm insanely curious" to engage the person in a more relaxed discussion.
Conclusion: Take your time and have fun! 🎉
Starting an online conversation can seem intimidating at first, but with a little practice, you'll learn to create interesting and pleasant exchanges. Remember that the essential is to be yourself, stay open and listen to the other. With these tips, you're ready to start captivating conversations and make new encounters with ease. So, it's your turn to play!
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